what you can do

After a loss, there's so often the question of "what can we do?"Honestly, not much.  We've appreciated the cards, notes, and meals.  The sweet gifts and generosity. We've loved the words and stories about Winnie (and Clive) and how they've impacted you or someone.  We've appreciated the people who have wrestled to find the right … Continue reading what you can do

Thao

Oh, Thao.  That sweet, mischievous little boy.  I'm reading his mom's book right now, and it's bringing back so many memories.  Memories of him, memories of their time in the hospital, memories of our time in the hospital.  It's hard, but it's good. Thao was in our kids church class that Sam and I did … Continue reading Thao

from the heart: on infertility, miscarriage, pregnancy, loss, and babies

This is one of those posts that I want to share because it feels so important, but at the same time it feels so exhausting and personal and heavy. Infertility, miscarriage, pregnancy, loss, and babies. They are such weighty subjects.  I'm not sure I'll even have the words to convey what I mean, but I … Continue reading from the heart: on infertility, miscarriage, pregnancy, loss, and babies